My day...my life..my precious

Diary Feb 13, 2011

2011-02-13T16:44:00.002+08:00

Semalam masak carrot cake and went to K Lah's house jumpa Tada and Iwan. Dinner kat TTDI SAlam pastu balik rumah layan Cerekerama on LED TV.
Hari ni masak Gulai kerang sengkuang, mintak resepi kat mak, sayur sampur celery dan ikan goreng tepung.
Petang - Cara berlauk..yummy.. Nafiz siap say thank you lagi tu.. tak suruh pun dia sendri nak wish thank you.. Gumbira rasa hari... Memang nak enhance skill memasak... dah teruk tahap gaban..that's all signing off

Can you see this wonder

2011-01-29T15:26:00.005+08:00

Nawfal dah gemuk
Sampai tertidur buat kerja sekolah
My new tv area with new tv...muah!!
Garlic bread on new grill pan..thank you to GOP for the rewards money.. I bought the pan that I've been eyeing for some time..yehaa!!Andreee

Ya Allah..I am grateful to be a muslim. Dah 34 tahun this year..tak lama lagi dah separuh abad.. Subhanallah.. there are more things to do yet i'm still doing the same all things.. Apa pulak plan this year...

Ni la lebih kurang..benda yg sama tambah tolak aje bilangan

Ameen....
- Tambah bilangan anak - pray for a girl this time
-Still thinking about further studies...company dah allow to subsidize regardless of tangga gaji..
- Tengah menunggu durian runtuh kalau2 dapat assignment gi Middle East.. I don't care about the risk.. Tanah Islam tu..apa takut
- Need to change the paradigm as nobody is perfect .. how wonderful my husband is...lagi satu pasal maid..I have to accept the imperfection of my maid..

Thank You Allah -2011

2011-01-29T08:28:00.006+08:00

First gandson - Umar Khan..Nov 15 2010..Welcome to the world..Pakcik Nawfal tengah test kenjalan kulit anak sedara baru dia
Cuti April 2010 di Awana Kijal.. First time naik flight
Nawfal yg paling segak of all..
For record, this is how I look at age of 33..
Anak teruna exploring the nature sambil tunggu kerepek Wan..business bulan puasa
My new hobby..fine dining serving at home... lest cost high satisfaction

My first post in 2011. Tengak dok lepak dgn anak kat family hall atas... syiok... hall bawah tak banyak kotor sbb dah spent most of the time kat atas.. hehe.. hubby bought early birthday present ..LED TV 42". I love you la sayang walaupun org tahu birthday tu sebenarnya utk the whole family.
What major things happenned
- Tukar anak masuk Qdees.. kat sini campur bangsa biar dia tahu... MGO sikit.. cultural differences.. Hari tu pegi ramai lak member vision homes hantar kat situ. Hubby suka .. I'm more than happy.. Thank you Allah
- Kenapa bukan Krista - There's nothing wrong with Krista.. but if they do better planning.. tak last minute buat event.. tak kan reveal dissatistaction.. ni kes nak cepat yg mana budak cekap habis harung semua kerja... budak lembap lagi jadi lembap la..Anyway... the main reason I need them to mingle around with other races
- Nawfal cukup happy gi sekolah..naik van..nyanyi lagu choo choo train.. First dah of school dah berani mintak teacher extra meal.."Teacher saya nak lagi".Ha nak tahu badan dia mcm mana? Mangai sehat!!
- Went to Janda baik after trip in Dec.. Enjoying every moments..the following week we went to Penang..Never disappointing us..always have good memories besides the traffic la.. macam dah tak muat nak tanggung pulau tu dgn org masuk.. Thank you Allah
- Trip - First time in Tokyo, Osaka, Beijing, Shanghai... Thank you Allah
- I had a fight with him.. well ...what that's different than the rest..hehe..Anyway lesson learnt jgn take things for granted.. You will lose along the way.. Don't be complacent

My beloved anak2 sedara

2010-11-05T07:01:00.005+08:00

Why suddenly it came to my mind writing this? Sebab semalam Lie tulis untuk maksu dia. They're truly special, always closest to my heart. Sebabnya when they came to this world the life more merrier..some thouhts

Iz dgn dikna - ini tempat eksperimen maksu dia..Depa ni pelat.."K"jadinya "T"..Maksu nya pun tak senononh suruh dikna semua "Pangkat" dlm bahasa pelat dia..definitely it turned out to be the dirty word. Faiz ni musuh ketat dulu..asyik bergadh je dgn budak. Sampai nangis2 gaduh dgn dia. tapi dia ni kecik mmg perfectionist.. budak dua special dr yg lain sebab kitorang masa kecik dulu merasa mandi sama2.

Vision boyz - Dari kecik dah nampak potentiallity budak2 ni... Mmg futuristic..tu sebab dia boleh form this group, sebab they know they are stronger together.. I still remember their motto.. Man gotto what man got to do..Ni kerja Lie la..Si Mu rtadha tu dia border2.. perangai macam budak lagi tapi sbb ikut along dia..so dia act like boyz to men.

Opah's Angel - Ni had pompuan..masa kecik2 lagi suka melawa.. Ingat lagi si Mardhiyyah..masa nak gi jogging..kat 3-4 kali salin baju.. itu baru rasanya darjah 6 takpun lower secondary.. itu kes nak mengorat aizat la tu. Si farhana ketua dia..memang dari kecik ada skill jadi cikgu bedah.. mulut pot pet. Cita cita nak jadi mak andam..hmmm..sib baik tak jadi.Si waydah suka cakap sorang sorang..dia perasan lah dia tgh ada show sendiri..ingat lagu syahadah..boleh tahan suara dia. "Masa dia baru balik UK..lidah manchester."Mommie. Si Aá dia sensitive sikit ..dia masa sekolah dulu ada time depression sampai kena tukar kelas

Mission kids -Ini semua yang the next generation.. Either Raziq or Iwan ketua dia.Raziq masa kecik dulu gemuk dgn rambut kerinting2.. kalau dia hug boleh tumbang. Iwan si imam muda ni..mischievous masa kecik2 dulu.pernah sekali tu dia tunjuk anu dia kat atas pagar rumah..Atah akim ni cute..jambu...masa lahir adik depa rahim sesuka je dukung budak tu ..gayat tgk.. budak tu tengkuk tak kuat lagi..akim ni ko-kurikulum..atah kurikulum..macam tula..akim ni outdoor..mmg pun suruh dia kiss maksu dia..dia gi penampar.. Acoy ni nampak jenis can't let go things..jgn berdendam sudahla .

okla that's all for now..anak dah bangun

Oct Post

2010-10-02T06:40:00.003+08:00

It's second day of Oct. Dari post yang lepas Arie dah tukar maid baru lagi..Headache..Kali ni jenis tak boleh ditegur dia naik satu macam baran kalau ditegur. Dah le tu kerjanya ada je yang tak elok pandangan mata. bawah pegi jalan dia lak mencuci mata bukannya control anak2 hero ni. Kita lak mencari mana pegi kelibat dia..seksa jiwa raga..

Anyway..enough of maids..meh citer benda lagi. I went to Ya's wedding...Maha kuasa Allah..Indah!

over productive

2010-07-31T05:45:00.002+08:00

Tadi kul 4.30 dah bangun terus turun bawah nak kemas rumah. Siap ketuk bilik maid suruh bangun. Dah kat setengah jam tunggulah azan ni berbunyi. Tengok jam rupannya baru kul 5 pagi.. alahai bibik ku sorry lat tergerak awal.

Ni gambar masa gi travel hari tu

2010-07-18T06:52:00.000+08:00

Berikanlah ku kekuatan

2010-04-11T14:10:00.004+08:00

April 11 - Was my bad month. Kena marah dengan boss US submit travel plan lambat..pastu dgn e-mail backlog... Ya Allah bagilah ku kekuatan.

Ya Allah - Ini rasanya ujian perkahwinan..up until now the mix feelings of perangai masih macam duri menyusuk jiwa. Why am I still willing to be so distance away from the office just to make sure my husband would get up for solat subuh..I am writing this note at 2.13 pm and he's still sleeping. Ya Allah besarnya ujian... I feel envy seeing other husbands wake up early doing outdoor chores. Ini ada kereta pun macam lori sampah...penuh dgn anak lipas

Writing using my new laptop

2010-03-27T01:56:00.004+08:00

Taraaah!!! bought a new laptop last month. Remembrance of my last duit kutu for over 5+ yrs in this game. Finally they called it off. Lama tu..since my day saving money for the wedding, sampai beranak pinak.

Kenapa tergerak hati nak tulis. Masa menuju ke daun pintu rumah, tak disangka sangka dengar maid baru marah Nawfal. Menengking dia marahkan si Nawfal. Dengar suara Nawfal macam ketakutan. tengah down tahap gaban. Apa la nasib budak budak kena jaga dgn orang luar..

And for such long years, my husband agreed to stay beside me comforting my sorrow. Kalau tak mana dia suka dgr rintihan sedih bini dia which normally we ended with arguments. Seperti biasa he's such in positive position and I'm being the worst case scenario teller.

But I wont forget this moments of life... another episode of child's journey and my husband's romantic confession..when was his first crush on me. Dia kata "Masa Hariry and me met him at LRT Kelana Jaya'. salah satu taktik best friend dia nak kenenkan kami dua... Masalahnya I don't recall when was that.. Kenapa ambik dia kat LRT KJ pun tak tahu.. but at least I love him more everyday. I LOVE YOU SAYANG.

It's February - 2010

2010-02-01T05:58:00.002+08:00

The year changed, masih di tokok lama.

1st child - 28
2nd child - 30
3rd child - 34
4th child - 38

Master degree by 40 (7 yrs to go)
Retire at 45 OR 50

Selamat Datang Ramadhan

2009-08-29T01:04:00.003+08:00

Syukur Alhamdulillah..masih diberi kurnia untuk bernafas setiap saat. Ramai yg telah pergi, masa kita ntah bila.. I will do my very best to fill in the months with barakah.

Ni nak share about kata2 dari Mak Cho.. which I think I need to keep this article for remembering our roots

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Blessings dan kesejahteraan hidup yg kita dap0at hari ini adalah berkat amalan dan doa orang tua kita. Teringat mkco, masa mkco krja kat Pontian dulu, atuk dgn Mkco selalu berutus surat. I still have some of his letters until now. Dia selalu akhirkan suratnya dgn kata-kata," Ayahanda selalu berdoa.." dan di skhir apa yg didoakannya dia kata, ingat lah bahawa doa dari orang tua kita itu dimakbulkan Allah.
> > Atuk was a very special man. Dia tak cakap banyak. dia tak marah anak-anak. Klu ada pon, agak2nya 2/3 kali setahun adalah, itu pon jangkamasa dia menegur kesalahan kita dgn marah pon tak sampai 3 minit pon. He observed our inclination and interests. Diam2 dia belikan Kelo kasut lumba lari, sbb Kelo selalu menang lwn lumba lari.Drjah 6 dia belikan mkco basikal, sbb sekolah mkco paling jauh, tak boleh jalan kaki. Satu masa dia belikan kami jam tangan Timex, tidak serentak tapi satu demi satu. Kelo dan Cu, seluar mereka tailor made kat regular tailornya di Menglembu, dan bila basuh, hantar dobby utk dry clean.Semua tu kami tak pernah minta. We led a very simple life. Gaji kastam berapa lah sangat.Tapi dia bantu adiknya yang hilang penlihatan on monthly regular basis. Jiran2 yang terdesak minta pinjam wang, tak pernah balik dgn hampa.Dia punya financial planning, fantastik. Minta aja duit buku, yuran2 tertentu, terus dia bagi.dia jahit baju Melayu anak-anak jiran, kira sedekah aja. Adikberadiknya kat kmpong mesti refer kat dia apa2 masalah pon. yg ptgnya, dia bawa keluarganya tinggal di tempat yg ada fasiliti bndr, w'pon dia ada rmh di kpg, that way kami dihantar ke sek org putih dan sek rendah yg lebih baik. Hari raya dia bawa kami semua ziarah bapa-paba sedaranya. Berduyun kami naik bas pergi Tembok, Gopeng,..
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> Tak lengkap tak tulis sikit about our mother, Rokiah bt Jaafar. Mkco tak byk memori tentangnya. I was in std one when she returned to the Almighty. Unlike atuk, dia lebih byk cakap, dan Atuk setuju saja dgn apa2 keputusannya tentang sesuatu. seperti Atuk, dia juga pengasih orangnya. Zaman dulu peminta sedekah datang dari rumah ke rumah dan orang2 sedekahkan beras, bukan duit. Mak kami, selain dari beri beras saja, dia suruh Mk We hidangkan makanan untuk peminta sedekah tu, bukan nasi kandar tapi proper hidangan dalam satu dulang. Mana ada orang rajin nak buat gitu sekarang, malah waktu tu pon takde orang nak go all out like that. A real fantastic act! And she always wanted the best for her children. Dgr ceritanya, mak mertuanya mahu jodohkan anak gadisnya dgn jejaka yang tak tetap income dan dari kampong. She dared to go against the plan. alhm'lah setelah dia dah tiada, masuklah rombongan dari seorang guru yang baik meminang dan dapatlah cucu-cucu yg baik (kome lale tu..) yang tak pernah dilihatnya langsong.and she was a great protector of her kids. Mkco ingat kami naik bas nak pergi rmh sedara di Butterwrth, sbb nk ambil daun semambu, ubat kerana mkco kena pelentung. Dia dukung Mk Noi, mkco di belakangnya, . Belum sempat kedua-kaki naik atas bas, bas tu mula bergerak. Mak kami apa lagi..dia marah dan jerit pada driver bas. Semua orang dlm bas tercengang, but uf course sided her.

Family Trip to Penang in June

2009-06-10T21:14:00.003+08:00

Celebrated our 5th anniversary by giving a trip to my kids. Location is Pearl of the Orient
1) Gurney Drive
2) Padang Kota
3) Botanical Garden
4) Penang Hill
5) Ferry Trip
Wow.. we managed control ourselves not to spend money in shopping..Only for the foods. Cuma habis duit MYR200. Happy... my husband gave full cooperation.My kids were behave..well

Hot topic but devastating

2009-06-03T06:22:00.003+08:00

I got to know from my sister that my maid treated my kids badly. Sedihnya..Subhanallah. When she cleaned their poops she used her feet. Sedihnya.. Lepas tu dah malas masak makan budak ni sup sayur ajer. Ikan dia makan, budak ni tak makan. But I can't do anything sbb mak cakap don't say much about this takut lagi teruk dia buat kat budak budak tu. So, I just have to letting go.. MasyAllah. Dah la tu, when I'm at work I somehow forget about my kids at home. Sometimes or most of the times I didn't call them. Kalau lambat balik, lambat jelah. K Lah kata budak budak ni sampai takut nak buang air besar. Pastu kalau dia cuci mesti tutup pintu.

My images of Abah

2009-04-11T12:29:00.002+08:00

Kisah Abah - 10 tahun arwah meniggalkan kami

2009-04-11T12:10:00.000+08:00

Dan ini secoret kisah dari anaknya yang sempat bersama arwah selama 22 tahun.

1) Cukup 2 minggu bersama arwah masa spring break, dan tepat 1740 MY time Arie call temiang sebab dah sampai subuh Arie tak boleh tidur , mungkin kerana jetlag atau mungkin sesuatu nak terjadi..takde sapa angkat telepon di rumah.. rupanya keadaan kritikal di hospital
2) Esok paginya ada 2 test paper kena seat in, and the last test paper Arie dapat exception untuk ambik on the next day. Memang badan kurang sihat, batuk masa balik cuti Malaysia. The whole day di Campus. Dapat tahu dari kawan yang keluarga telefon rumah dia, sebab takde orang kat rumah Arie.
3) Kuatkan semangat telefon Malaysia after solat maghrib (pagi Malaysia), Mardhiyyah angkat telefon dan Arie tahu ada berita buruk sebab hari tu bukan cuti sekolah.. kenapa dia ada kat temiang. Mardhiyyah pass tu K Wa.. dan seterusnya
4) Lepas dapat berita, Arie berjalan kaki ke train station seorang diri pergi rumah kawan rapat yang tinggal kat bandar..Housemate Arie ketika itu semuanya bercouple..so normally memang Arie sorang di rumah..
5) Keesokan harinya , ambil test..mana dapat kekuatan datangnya dpd Allah..
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Memories
1) Bila dapat berita, otak akan flash back kisah lama.. Yang keluar adalah pengorbanan abah teman Arie tunggu bas sekolah hujung jalan. Dia takkan benarkan Arie angkat beg sekolah..Dia yg akan bawak. sampai Arie kena marah dengan bas driver sbb tak angkat beg sendiri.
2) Masa buat passport nak pegi US, kaunter panggil nama Arie tapi abah yang meluru depan kaunter sampai org kaunter kata "Anak pakcik dah 20 tahun, pakcik tak payah datang kat kaunter ni"

Cerita Umrah

2009-04-05T14:42:00.005+08:00

Finally dah balik umrah with different kind of feeling.. I've been telling others that going there is like going to fantasy land.. Since small, you've been told about Rasulullah S.A.W and Ka'abah.. but it was all in your dream and this time you saw right before your eyes... hmm different feeling

Excerpt from Mak Cho's e-mail-
Pak Yop pergi ke Miqat nearest to Mekah. Nama tempat tu Tanaaim. Sampai sana dia rasa nak trkncin sangat, tapi dia tak nampak tanda toilet, to ease himself. Dia nampak seorang leleki Arab, dari negeri mana tak tau. Dia cuba tanya, tapi lelaki tu tak faham BI, dan Pak Yop tak tau bahasa Arab. Dia pon pergi hampir dengan lelaki tu,sambil tunjukkan tangannya hampir sangat dengan "birdie" orang tu. Masa yang sama dia kuncupkan lima jari tangan kanannya itu, dan dari arah birdie tu digerakkan jari-jarinya sesolah-olah memancutkan air. Serata merta irang tu faham, dan PakYop pon rasa amat lega!!! Moral of the story? U tell us.....

2.MakYang kurang sihat hari tu, tapi gigih juga nak buat umrah yang terakhirnya sebelum balik. Nani dan Jar sorong dia naik wheelchair. Selesai Umrah tu,dia pon disorong balek oleh anak-anak nya. Tiba di perkarangan Masjidil Haram, dia di tinggalkan sekejap oleh anak-anaknya. Mak Yang ketika itu berpakaian serba putih, dan bercermin mata hitam. Tiba-tiba ada seorang hamba Allah meletakkan SR10.00 di atas ribanya. MakYang suruh Nani belikan aiskrim dari duit itu, tapi Nani tak mau dan guna duitnya sendiri. Moral of the story? U tell us!!!

3. Tokcu sakit dan beberapa hari tak keluar dari bilik. Makanan Wancu dibawakan kebiliknya. Mkco pergi melihat dia. Tiba-tiba dia menjerit kuat, " Apa bau busuk niii... berulang kali. Makco rasa takut dan terus berganjak berdiri dekat pintu biliknya. Pahcu terus mengambil pinggan nasinya dan membuang makanannya ke dalam bakul sampah. Menu hari itu ialah nasi puteh, lauk ayam masak sambal dan salad dengan sambal belacan. Kemudian dia jerit lagi, ' Nak muntah ni,.. nak muntah ni..." Makwe yang baru tiba ke bilik Tokcu terus masuk bilik air dan ambil bakul sampah yang ada makanan makanan yang dia kata busuk tadinya. Bakul sampah tu dah sedia ada lapisan plastik Makwe letakkan dekat dengan hidung dan mulut Tokcu, supaya ia muntah di dalam bakul itu. Makco yang memerhati apa yang terjadi, kek kek kek ketawa. Moral of the story? U tell us!!!

Knock! Knock! Who's there!!

2009-03-13T00:00:00.003+08:00

Nur...Who's Nur.. the light of everyone's life.. I'm in again.. Month of March. Can't sleep although no audiconf finally (sigh).. Got to know mak is sick, high fever and experienced short amnesia... I'm worried.. Ya Allah.. I'm not ready for anything bad to happen. I survived for another months in 2009, world economy is not good. Moe news about people being laid-off..Pray to Allah Malaysia is not the selected ones..

Mar 8 - Mala's engagement. I'm happy for the family esp mak and abah pilah.. I know they have been struggling raising the kids and now is the payback time. Our family is growing each month.. D

Mar 16 - Going to umrah..Ya Allah permudahkanlah urusan ini..amin

The beginning 2009

2009-01-03T07:06:00.004+08:00

We went to Malacca on 31st Dec, celebratng new year and taking the kids out on a final day of 2008. Sewa apartment belakang Mahkota Parade. Memang harga quite pricey (for me more RM 200 considered dah over the budget). Tapi worthwhile of paying, semua tempat dekat jalan kaki shj. Even we can see Eye of Malaysia from the Apt room. I marked this place as a short, simple place to go for bercuti. Dekat dgn rumah dan berbaloi. Banyak new places since the last time I went. Even there're new foundings. I love history , kat sekolah memang score.
Ok .. New Year 2009. Azam tahun lepas pun tak sure terlaksana ke tak.. pun dah tak ingat apa. So tahun ni, plannya simple jela.

1. Giving more respect to husband... biar dapat cium bau syurga
2. Make sure I don't get pregnant this year

Addicted to Net

2008-11-13T22:08:00.004+08:00

Because of FB, every night I'll find a time to get connected. So, basically it triggers the mood to update my blog. In a way, sebagai collection of my life event. Sekelip mata anak membesar depan mata.

This is my FB badge

For this time around, photos entails everything. Here goes

Year End Update

2008-11-08T08:09:00.004+08:00

Well, You can sense how busy I am this year. This is my 3rd post for this year. And I guess would be the wrap up post. Summarize key things happening to me

May
My Birthday. Dah lupa hubby bagi apa. As usual, kena mintak baru dapat. Ooo I get a new purse; Bonia. Went around tak jumpa yang berkenan. I need a perfect one because I know I'll be using it till 4-5 yrs down the road. Mesti boleh simpan buku bank, USD yg lebor, and a place for picture.. Hmm. Kali ni siap ada sling, kalau nak keluar lunch tak payak bawak handbag. Pandai tak salesgirl tu bodek. I had to attend many wedding receptions, so decided for family vacation to Kuala Terengganu alang2 pegi kenduri kahwin. The girl tu pun dah pregnant.

June
Went to US for a week, visit Kak Na in SF. So I did my raya shopping there. All for my sons, and my bathware. Satu beg barang Victoria Secret and Bodyworks.

July - Same old thing...work ..work..work. We bought a second car..MPV.. Kononnya the family is already big..Duhh...baru anak dua. Think about safety, I need have a bigger car. I don't want to risk the kids by putting them on the lap. So the best way is to buy a bigger car.. Just because our nafsu is considerably big too.. We got an Estima. Can you imagine that.. Anak dua jer.. Power door punya pasal..Selepas itu, hidup kami pun sengkek. I tell you I have to catu my lunch pocket money, monthly expense..even my kids stuff being downgraded..at one point I bought "pampers" not drypers..and it's sucks.. Nawfal siap boleh koyak dgn tangan..

August
Yang best cuti Merdeka kot.. Hish tak taula...Time flies.

Sept
Posa.. Hubby takde for the past two weeks of ramadhan. He had to go to offfshore.. Me myself making sure that I'll not miss the terawih, surau hujung jalan je.. Takkan tak pegi kot.. Bukak Posa pun ala kadar.. so guesss what I managed to gain my pre-baby weight..

Oct
Rayala... The first Raya was at my in-law's.. 5 days without a maid.. I managed to take care my both babies..Tu agaknya turun berat badan tu kot..Berkat solat dhuha, company announced 8% increment to the employees. So, we basically gotten 16% percent (Me n Hubby). My employment anniversary.. so alhamdulillah naik increment..tak banyak tapi boleh la tolong kurang beban bayar estima. OO lagi satu my kids went to daycare because maid balik holiday for a month. Mencekik daghah punya day care. Nafiz pegi 2 minggu je.. off cuti raya, pastu mak dtg rumah dia nak tinggal dgn opah..Tapi I had tu pay them 1K plus.. Overtime sampai RM90, pastu bagi alasan buku tak bawak..Kalau betulla menipu.. tak berkat business diorang

Nov
Lega sikit..Pastu cari strategy untuk barang dapur.. Selama ni beli kat Rufaqa or know as Ikhwan Global..Mak aii..mahal..Lepas tu selalu buat transaction mistake.. Last week , I persuaded my husband to go pasar besar Seremban.. Save money and many things to buy with cheaper price.

April Post

2008-04-26T07:30:00.004+08:00

Have moved to 2Q, but still wondering what were my accomplishments this year..

Family

Nawfal dah boleh jalan on his 10-mth birthday
Nafiz is picking up new phrases. Sebab selalu sangat tengok TV bahasa percakapan dia dah jadi formal "Wow hebatnya..berjaya"
Abey dah banyak rambut gugur.. katanya sebab teman selalu sangat nagging sampai botak kepala dia.. hmmm
Me... I still hasn't gotten my original weight after the 2nd pregnancy... dieting pun kekadang bila rasa bersalah.. but now i make a point to go for senam robik every Sunday at the park.
We found new hobby ... me and my husband..baking.. kitorang dah buat quiche.. tak sangka my husband ada bakat terpendam buat pastry.. muhahaha

Work

Dalam benci kerja mesti nak cerita pasal kerja.. ntah le.. i'm too into it
Oklaaa... My principle is to give my fullest effort to make this successful..My fullest effort may not be something that memang bagus... see the leg le.. Teman ni orang kampung..Takat standard temiang ler teman bagi..Nak gempak sgt idok le. Ater sapa suruh nominate teman.. Teman tak sior nak pegang supervisor2 ni. Well amanah is amanah... i don't give a damn about the title..but i'll give my very best to the tasks

Maid

Bibik teman ada masalah keluarga. Ater kalau ada sedara dtg, balik kampung..mengadu ajala dia. Takde pulak nak ngadu kat majikan dia.
I want her to continue working with me.. but me tahu jelah.. berat mulut. I have not had a serious discussion with her.. to continue or not to continue... kang nak balik cuti hujung tahun kena plan my leave

Extended Family

My father in law has retired at the aged of 56 on Apr 17
So they have moved back to Pilah
I started to share my hobby with my mother in law - jaga orkid
Abg Am moved to Seremban 2. Tambah lagi member kat Negeri Sembilan. Ada la geng rumah mak nak berkunjung kat sini nanti

Photos
Cutest photo of Nawfal

New Hobby

2008 ELECTION

2008-03-08T22:40:00.004+08:00

I'm alone with my kids and maid. Baba went back home for voting. Me being the "don't care citizen" stayed at home look after my kids or they look after me. My eldest is busy doing his favorite hobby mess-up place, kali ni bilik computer abah dia. Tengah prepare lampu kononnya rosak.. Well.. tengah boring boring ni rasa nak mencoret. Don't ask about work ... it's never ending.. no more satisfaction.. I feel dumb but pretend to be smart. I need to be strong...
My hubby is no more getting the ultimate happiness from me.. Ada je benda dia sakit hati kat binik dia ni. Sometimes I feel we better off work in different places. I just can't be the 8-5 working hours. He keeps on telling me in a day we need to go home early.. nevertheless my work does not permit me to do that.. pls understand.
Anak anak... fully dependant kat bibik. Kalau dia takde memang le tertekan rasanya..Hal kerja lagi dgn hal rumah... urgh Let's not talk about more..Sebenarnya nak letak gambar from my new dopod...sign off

Close-out year 2007

2007-12-27T21:23:00.000+08:00

Cuti tahunan till year end.

Chronology of Events

2007-09-27T12:45:00.000+08:00

June
June 13 - Gave birth to my second son - Muhammad Nawfal Nasrun. Meaning of Nawfal - Generous.

July & Aug
Confinement period. Gain 6 kg after gave birth..urgh
Mid Aug - Return to Office.. Why do I ...

Sept

Sep 1 - Nazrin kahwin
Mid Sept - Went to Singapore and Bangkok. Business Trip. As usual K Oja ikut serta.
Sep 13 - Ahlan Ramadhan

Oct

Oct 4 - Birthday of Nafiz
Oct 13 - Raya.....Happy :)

30th Birthday

2007-05-27T08:45:00.000+08:00

Got a flower and bracelet from Hubby. Dia ni konservatif orangnya. Birthday pun tak sambut. Reason being family dia pun tak sambut birthday. My advice to him , kenala tukar paradigm. My family is practising the same thing. When it comes to Mother's Day dah segan nak wish mak Mother's Day. Tak biasa.. I don't even know when is mak's brithday.

Good article to share to all..

APA PUNCA ANAK DERHAKA

Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w. " Berguraulah dengan anak kamu kala usianya satu
hingga tujuh tahun. Berseronok dengan mereka, bergurau hingga naik atas
belakang pun tak apa. Jika suka geletek, kejar atau usik anak asalkan
hubungan rapat. Lepas tujuh hingga 14 tahun kita didik dan ajar, kalau
salah pukullah dia (sebagai pengajaran)" dimana yang nak dipukul tu? Tapak
kakinya... .. bukan muka, punggung, telinga dan ditempat-tempat yang
sensitif... . itu salah...

"Jika dia bijak dan menang dalam sebarang pertandingan sekolah, ucapkan
tahniah. Tidak salah kita cium atau peluk mereka sebagai tanda penghargaan.
Kala umur mereka 14 hingga 21 tahun jadikan kawan . Tetapi selalunya usia
beginilah ibu bapa mula merenggangkan hubungan dan ini menyebabkan anak
derhaka". Yang penting anak-anak harus dilatih sembahyang jemaah bersama,
latih cium tangan dan peluk penuh kasih dan sayang, maka mereka tidak akan
tergamak menderhaka . "Saya pernah tinjau, anak-anak yang lari daripada
rumah, berpunca daripada rasa bosan. Belum sempat letak beg sekolah, ibu
dah suruh macam-macam. Si anak rasa tertekan dan menyampah dengan
persekitaran dan rumahnya. Boleh disuruh tetapi berikan hak mereka di
rumah. Yang penting dia balik ke rumah suka, dan pergi sekolah pun seronok.
"Mungkin ibu bapa punya alasan tidak rapat dengan anak-anak kerana sibuk.
Kita boleh cuba cara lain, balik di tengah malam, anak-anak sudah tidur,
pergi bilik dan cium dahinya. Hubungan rohani tetap subur, walaupun anak
tidur tetapi jiwanya sentiasa hidup." Jangan kita tunjuk sikap kita yang
panas baran, pemarah dan ada kuasa veto kepada mereka, jangan suka
mengherdik mereka dengan perkataan "bodoh, kurang ajar, sumpah seranah dan
sebagainya yang merupakan doa kepada mereka". inilah yang menyebabkan
mereka derhaka kepada kita...

2Q 2007

2007-05-22T23:54:00.000+08:00

It's been a while... And I'm 8-mth pregnant. My job scope has also changed.. kalau ikutkan skill families, buat IT SUPPORT jer. Anyway, whatever you do, be the best.

My accomplishment for last year
- My son has grown taller but kurus keding
- My husband still in love with me
- Willing to take another chance to go thru the labor pain... tak lama lagi...takut
- Being a boss in the workplace..do i have to go thru this ????

And again tak sah kalau takde pictures

July updates

2006-07-23T22:55:00.000+08:00

Hehehe..macam kat office. Monthly highlights yang June selalu mintak tu..Selalu hantar after deadline..Suka buat kerja last minute. Hey come one...procrastination is not the way to succeed. Kata nak jadi wanita berjaya..

My major excitement

1. Of Course laa my baby (9-month old). Nafiz dah pandai sebut new words.

Nampak foods he will say "mum..mum".
Nampak abah dia "aaa..bah".
Nampak emak "emmmm...". (tak kesampaian until the moments he wanted to sleep or cry for help. Itulah tugas seumur hidup seorang ibu. Be there for their them. Betul taaak.
Hero rumah ni dalam merentas tangga dan memanjat.
The most sincere smile..well baby they never know how to lie..so the smiles are the most sincere. Nampak gigi 4 batang.
Menapak sikit..he makes sure he gets what he wants but still co-onsiderate type of person.
Dia kalau suka something, or dislike..mesti geleng kepala..wooo not good. Sign of negative-tism.
Paling suka dengar azan berkumandang kat TV. Although the abah and the mak are kaki solat akhir waktu. Na'uzubillah. Nafiz, show your good attitude..

2. My dearest Hubby

I don't know why tapi I never stops buat dosa dgn dia almost everyday sebab melawan cakap dia.
Dan dia pun tak le nak berubah .... haaaa why we have credit card nowadays..I'm suffer because of you. My hubby never stop using YOU....
Anyway..macam2 lagilah..Kang tulis panjang nanti tambah lagi dosa teman..

3. My Maid

Ni lagi sorang buat kroni dgn my in law. Sedap2 dia kutuk masakan teman dapan mak mentua teman. Dia katanya tempoyak pucuk ubi teman masam tak sedap. Aku cili2kan mulut dia. Depan orang pijak semut tak mati..Belakang... kaki ngutuk.
Orang sana pun dok le melayan dia baik2. Bukannya teman buat dia macam hamba abdi..Well you know maid. Terlebih bijak nanti pijak kepala kita.
Heee..maleh nak cerita tension satu kroni. Maleh betul nak bawak dia jumpa orang sana...

Another challenge task in my career life

2006-07-23T22:44:00.000+08:00

Alamak... lagi sekali kena improve diri that I can do it. Anak melayu ni boleh buat ke. Hmmm... Cammane ni.. My bos has given me the trust to run this alone by myself. She will only push me from behind, but I'm driving it..Haaa... Bukan nak cakap.. Sometimes, i'm envy to my friends that grown up in modern-educated family. Ada yang parents memang tahu cakap omputeh. So depa ni cuma flavoring it. Macam "teman" ni belajar cakap omputeh masa masuk sekolah "1,23/ABC". Ingat lagi pengalaman mak bila anak2 dah kawin ni, ada bisan mak yang baca STAR, tapi dia baca UTUSAN MALAYSIA. Abah selalu kutuk signature mak..terketor-ketor nulisnya.

Anyway, back to this. I can do it. Anak melayu kampung temiang can do it. Hidup TEMIANG.

Lagi gambar SF

2006-07-23T21:37:00.000+08:00

Lagi gambar kt SF. Kena tunjuk once in a lifetime.

Trip to San Francisco

2006-07-23T18:02:00.000+08:00

San Francisco Cable Car

WaterFront ?? Dunnolaa tapi somewhere in San Francisco

Wonderful moments..dapat jumpa kak Oja, my childhood quarrel partner ; Kak Na and her family. Ni nak tunjukkan gambar ketika di sana.

2006-02-18T01:15:00.000+08:00

Nafiz and myself in Brussel when he was 6-month old in the womb. Well, he got free air ticket to Europe.

2006-02-18T01:13:00.000+08:00

Me and my baby

2006-02-18T01:05:00.000+08:00

My baby the day he was born

2006-02-18T01:01:00.000+08:00

This is my family. As you noticed, the cute one in the middle is my angel, Muhammad Nafiz. This picture was taken during Hari Raya 2005.

2006-02-18T00:31:00.000+08:00

Well I'm clueless.. but what the heck i finally created my own blog dedicated to my baby. Introduce him to the cyber world