Macam Macam Story

Jan 22 - MRSM result released. His application did not pass through. Ada hikmah untuk setiap kejadian. He felt release, not keen of going to boarding school. Lagi prefer untuk abah dia ambik jemput walaupun kena tunggu 2-3 jam kat sekolah.

Jan 29 - Early birthday present by hubby. A pandora bracelet, something that I wish for so long long ago.

Nawfal naik kelas but his attitude has not changed. More unfinished homework than before. So many homeworks, but unfinished. Tak kisah apa pun dia. Lagi keras kita, lagi keras dia.. Very different than his abang. Different approach to take on this time.

We bought new internet tv, just to avoid Nasuha addicted to phone. The consequence was that she could pick her "gediks" channel whenever she likes. Bukannya nak tengok educational program, but prefer to watch the unboxing toy videos.

Nayla is growing up fast. She collected the behaviors from all the siblings... Lagila advance wordings wordings yg not nice to hear. Protect her Ya Allah.

I moved to new office look. Tak boleh bawak kipas. How do I survive yea..

These all lifetime journey , I need to be strong to mould them for a better ummah.

UPSR - Is it really not a big deal ?

Salam -

Nov 23, 2017 hari keramat untuk parents yang 1st time ada anak ambik UPSR. It was a usual day, hubby sent them to school ; Nafiz and Nawfal. Lepas tu kami hantar Nasuha ke sekolah we got to know Nasuha pun ada report card day on the same day. Hubby told teachers may not be attending sebab nak ambik result UPSR abang kat sekolah. After that, we went breakfast out; dengan Nayla sekali rasanya. Makan pun tawar je rasa. Balik rumah, solat dhuha, hajat baca surah yasin rasanya and then cari selawat tafrijiyyah. Itu la perasan seorang ibu. Always keep high standards for anything she does.

Hubby datang menjengah kat bilik suruh siap, omaknya tak sanggup lagi nak bertindak..nak baca lagi ayat apa2 yang boleh..siap imagine the slip result tu fading tukar huruf jadi "A" semua. Macam citer drama omputeh. Anything goes...hoping for miracles. Hubby dah sakat nak check kat phone. SMS the number, tapi tak dapat info..hish laki teman memang kaki kacau..potong steam. I said I dont want to know. And post result on social media, knowing him. Kalau result anak bagus, dia yg paling kuat mencanangkan kegembiraan. Tapi yang tungkus lumus nak bagi anak ni lepas kita la. Tapi itulah aturan Allah, gigih dia tempat lain which I'll tell you after this.

Around 10 am, pegi la ambik result Nasuha. Tengok result dia pun okla..tak zaman abg long dia. Kalau tak dapat 100% macam naik singa satu badan. Buat careless mistake dah macam criminal. Itula bezanya, dengan Nasuha kitorang (ME esp) cool je. No worries ..long way to go.

Lepas tu terus gerak ke sekolah, parents dah ramai tunggu . Masa jalan, bunyi phone suami, incoming message. Laki ku pandang phone, dengan tekak gulp pastu senyum. I dah agak dah, mesti dia dapat result UPSR tu. Dia senyum so ok la tu, but how ok is the ok...crazy makkk....

Bila sampai dewan masa tu speech CEO, he tell all the system peperiksaan and repeat his speech we listen at majlis graduasi, majlis penyampaian Nawfal , and this event again. Ok la I understood. Mana sempat nak buat version macam2.

Habis je, itula masa dinantikan.. Name called up by the angka giliran. One after another, bila sampai "M" nama Muhammad Nafiz tak dipanggil2. Husband dah bagi muka question mark? Me Ok je nama tak panggil because I can't imagine getting the result. Bila dah habis , cari guru HEM. Sib baik nama dia ada dalam paper yg dia pegang.

And treng teng teng, rupanya anak bertuah ni dapat good result. Suruh ke depan jumpa reporter. Gila kaw..dah dalam awangan suruh cakap impromptu. Memang tak jalan la Nafiz and mak dia. Dua2 kaki introvert. We dont express our opinions spontanouesly OK ! Merapu la kmi depan camera tu.

Well, anyway it was unusual feeling. Dalam sekolah tu 6 orang je dapat 6A, and he's the only one in the class. Although Nafiz ni memang la selalu dapat hadiah kat as sofa, but for me dia dapat sebab competition tak tinggi. You dont compete with other races and number of people is so small. What surprised us, he didn't pass his entering assessment to this school. Ingat lagi dapat msg tu masa tgh tea time kat rest haji tapah. Rasa luruh jantung anak tak lepas masuk sek. Nak hantar dia ke mana? Nak masuk sekolah biasa kena turun naik pejabat.

Masa ni la I learn lifetime values from my husband. He learned the values of parenting from of his parents. Parents dia tak pernah putus asa nak bagi anak dema belajar walaupun budak tu mmg tak lepas mana2 institusi tinggi. Cuba sedaya upaya masuk giat mara la, kadet school anything asalkan depa grab skills untuk masa depan. This is when I see my husband willing to do anything to get the best education for his kids. Dia cakap kita buat surat rayuan, pegi jumpa guru besar apa sahaja. And for me, I had to tebal my muka call cikgu sebelah rumah tanya mcm mana nak masuk sekolah kebangsaan. Dah la buat last minit, sebab kejar kerja kat office. Bila January, baru nak buat semua ni. Ingat lagi cikgu tu cakap, masa mesyuarat hari tu deme terima sorang budak SRI masuk S2A tapi dia dah buat awal2 lagi. So I got the point...

Which finally we passed through the hardship and now the victory.

Good Job dear son, this is just beginning to open up the opportunities for you to choose your next phase.

Another happiness smile from him..

"Mak ..apizz sekolah mana ?" That was a week after school open. Dia dah gelisah tak masuk kelas lagi. Masa ni rasa nak nangis tak sampai hati tengok anak sedih. 

Nawfal dah pakai baju sebab dia tahu dia dapat masuk , tunggu bagi tahu nama kelas sahaja.

And this is Nafiz. Once we know he was accepted, cepat2 pegi kedai cari baju sekolah. Nampak tak muka happiness, tadi muka gelabah.

Our "based" family without ba ya ba ya kaf

So our head of cleaning department decided to go home for 2 weeks, after making a call home listening woofy woofy stories by the family. As a good employer, we listen and give the benefit of doubt. Cutilah beliau selama 2 minggu. Masa tu we all pun kena plan nak arrange sapa jaga anak, macam mana nak gi kerja etc. But this time it was a blessing with advancement of technology, facilities and the good people.


Syukur alhamdulillah dengan rezeki Allah, kami dah tambah barang rumah

Technology 

Air Fryer Philips : Senang nak masak benda simple sambil kita tumis kat dapur . Macam karipap frozen, nugget, sosej, roti bakar, sampaila ke ayam goreng

Magic Mop :Tak perlu perah guna tangan lagi. Walaupun kena improvise tapi lepas la hajat nak jalan atas lantai yg tak melekit

Steam iron Philips : Waaa yg ini dalam 10 min boleh siap baju sekolah anak. Yang lebih untung anak pun boleh buat sendiri. tak bahaya...tak pening nak pikir kena tekan berkali2..sekali swipe...harga pun kena swipe.

Facilities

 24hour express laundry : Bagusnya service ni, lagi lagi musim hujan. Baju htr dryer kat laundry pi pekena teh tarik. pastu dtg balik dah siap. Takpun berjam2 kat laundry sampai nak ambik anak sekolah baru singgah...ini nama nya tak patut..hihi

Good people

Anak dah pandai buat kerja rumah. On the way balik from office, dah call mommy dia bagitau dah masuk baju dlm washing machine, dah masak nasi dlm cooker, tunggu nak masak telur...waaa lepas la hajat yg penting2. Balik kena handle the aftermath je la.

So all in all, ada hikmah bibik balik kejap2. Kita pun nampak kesusahan dia so kita tolong tambah alat untuk senang kan dia. Sebab dia balik mesin basuh pun dah repair (eventhough she had told us zillion times), beli kettle (selama ni dia dok guna water dispenser nak masak air minum, dok cedok selalu - kami tak larat nak follow, magic mop pun sbb kami tak suka mop lecah2) .

In conclusion, dia happy kami pun happy running our own house. Sebab dia balik boleh la nak  kemas extra macam basuh peti ais, basuh kipas, kemas kain baju. Bukan apa kalau buat lebih lebih depan dia , nanti deme merajuk sbb ingatkan kita intervene their work. Tapi case nya, kekadang depa sempat buat kerja base je..nak buat extra2 ni mmg tak sempat. Kita lak kalau buat masa dia ada nak tunjuk perasaan tak puas hati sbb ada maid tapi kita yg kena buat..itulah lumrah alam. Jangan berkira sangat , so depa pun tak berkira dengan kita. Kalau tension gila babas, masak bilik kunci.. do not have interaction with them. I belajar semua ni lepas tukar ganti maid 6 kali, until i fed up. I think what important is fundamental needs je. I dont expect a perfect maganize-like home. I nak beli kettle pun berkira, so you expect rumah nak jadi castle..memang idak le kan.

Project Nafiz post-UPSR

At first, clueless jugak Nafiz bila habis UPSR. It felt like..what's next...After awhile, dia cakap he is just enjoying the good times. Tak yah kena kerah, pegi tuition and all sorts.
So I decided for him to complete his project.  Since recently, berita dikejutkan dengan kisah sekolah tahfiz terbakar....fuuu my bahasa. So I asked him to complete Safety Evacuation procedure. As usual, mak nya yg banyak dictate...member garu kepla je.

Nafiz - His first encounter of BIG exam

Nafiz's UPSR - Sep 11-Sep14.
It was a stressful week just to see your child going through the big challenge by his own.
Alhamdulliah, sekolah tu bagus ..never give up to give the very best education. Towards the end cikgu nya bagi kelas tambahan.

Everyday ada yassin dengan solat hajat. Kita sekali jadi tenang nak lalu hari2 tu. Semua benda rushing kat office jadi benda biasa , takde rasa gundah gelana. Ingat kan kita, pergantungan hanya pada Allah.

Nafiz pun terasa penangan exam..Katanya tak pernah dia belajar power2 untuk exam. Masa UPKK dulu dia rileks je.. Lain Yang...Nak ambik result nanti lain pulak rasanya.

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Hari ni Nafiz and Nawfal ada kelas kat sekolah. Abahnya ada jamboree.. As early 5.00 am bangun prepared the breakfast. Cooked keatiau goreng express..dgn daging sekali di blend. by 5.30 it's ready for the husband to eat before the big event. 6.30 wake up the boyz..naik bilik rupanya semua dah jaga termasukla si baby Nayla. Mandi sekali dgn nasuha and nayla, screamed at the boyz. Turun bawah around 7.30 am call uber to pick us up. Rupanya uncle uber tinggal kat VH jugak. Retired teacher for 30 years, taught English. It's a gemstone having Indian teacher taught English in Malaysia. Sekarang English teacher pun Malay yg teaching English in Bahasa. Tak ke susah tu.


Anyway, I bought new blender and pedestal fan to compensate the reward and recognition received dalam 300. Sebenarnya takde benda yg consider high value boleh dpt dalam 300 ni. Tapi bersyukur dengan rezeki yang diberi. Alhamdulillah.

Sweet moment with kids

Sepagi with the kids at Dinosaur Park. Dah lama tak bawak naik hill park ni, afraid the little ones tak lalu. Rupanya dia yg paling enjoy ..never at all asking me to carry her. Good girl little one Nayla


Here is the video

Video 4 n's

Posting my trip to Sintok

Dah banyak kali naik sintok. Almost every month. Yg Aug 26 we all pakat2 bawak passport cross the border untuk makan semata..Itu namanya serious business with joy. Lebih JJCM dpd buat PHD. Yang penting istiqamah..Macam I sekarang ni, patut tulis thesis tapi gatai update blog...

Aug 5 - Aug 26

Our Anniversary June 5, 2017 (13 tahun)

Pejam celik Pejam celik..krook krook rupanya dah 13 years of marriage.

So this year we celebrated by going to UUM sintok..meeting up with Professor on Ramadhan month.

Alhamdulliah..cinta sayang gave full support for me to pursue highest end.

Insya Allah one day we celebrated with joy..Here are some of the pictures.
Booked Changlun chalet..nearby UUM, got plenty thai foods..yummy

Buka at RnR Dengkil

Sampai @ 3am. Terus sahur kat thai restoran di Changlun.

Check Out time..Shiok..got tree house

Nafiz Nawfal - Changing School

Not easy decision. But it taught me a lesson how precious your amanah which you're willing to do anything. Nafiz did not pass the evaluation test but the school let Nawfal in because he's just std 4, not too late in catching up. Both of them did not pass because of Maths score. But Allah is great, both of them got upgraded to upper class and to our surprise Nafiz scored A for his Maths on pra-UPSR.

2 weeks left for his real UPSR exam. Nasuha can't wait for it to finish so that she can enjoy cuti2. As I always told her, we can only go cuti after abang Nafiz finish his big exam. Mommy also can't wait for quick breakaway. Had booked hotel in PD..private pool would suffice everyone's happiness.

Macam Macam

Macam Macam Event


Apr 1, 2017 - nasuha changed school. The old QDees school shutdown completely...Kesian cikgu cikgunya dah mengajar since Nafiz lagi.

Apr 5 - Nafiz tukar kelas, jumpa to 2 class above. Highest English result and score A with new UPSR scoring..itu je la A - nya. InsyaAllah yang lain akan menyusul tiba.

Mar 24 - wen to Singapore. First oversea trip for budak2... They were soooo excited passing the imigration gate...macam keluar planet lain...