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Kisah Abah - 10 tahun arwah meniggalkan kami

Dan ini secoret kisah dari anaknya yang sempat bersama arwah selama 22 tahun.

1) Cukup 2 minggu bersama arwah masa spring break, dan tepat 1740 MY time Arie call temiang sebab dah sampai subuh Arie tak boleh tidur , mungkin kerana jetlag atau mungkin sesuatu nak terjadi..takde sapa angkat telepon di rumah.. rupanya keadaan kritikal di hospital
2) Esok paginya ada 2 test paper kena seat in, and the last test paper Arie dapat exception untuk ambik on the next day. Memang badan kurang sihat, batuk masa balik cuti Malaysia. The whole day di Campus. Dapat tahu dari kawan yang keluarga telefon rumah dia, sebab takde orang kat rumah Arie.
3) Kuatkan semangat telefon Malaysia after solat maghrib (pagi Malaysia), Mardhiyyah angkat telefon dan Arie tahu ada berita buruk sebab hari tu bukan cuti sekolah.. kenapa dia ada kat temiang. Mardhiyyah pass tu K Wa.. dan seterusnya
4) Lepas dapat berita, Arie berjalan kaki ke train station seorang diri pergi rumah kawan rapat yang tinggal kat bandar..Housemate Arie ketika itu semuanya bercouple..so normally memang Arie sorang di rumah..
5) Keesokan harinya , ambil test..mana dapat kekuatan datangnya dpd Allah..
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Memories
1) Bila dapat berita, otak akan flash back kisah lama.. Yang keluar adalah pengorbanan abah teman Arie tunggu bas sekolah hujung jalan. Dia takkan benarkan Arie angkat beg sekolah..Dia yg akan bawak. sampai Arie kena marah dengan bas driver sbb tak angkat beg sendiri.
2) Masa buat passport nak pegi US, kaunter panggil nama Arie tapi abah yang meluru depan kaunter sampai org kaunter kata "Anak pakcik dah 20 tahun, pakcik tak payah datang kat kaunter ni"

Cerita Umrah

Finally dah balik umrah with different kind of feeling.. I've been telling others that going there is like going to fantasy land.. Since small, you've been told about Rasulullah S.A.W and Ka'abah.. but it was all in your dream and this time you saw right before your eyes... hmm different feeling

Excerpt from Mak Cho's e-mail-
Pak Yop pergi ke Miqat nearest to Mekah. Nama tempat tu Tanaaim. Sampai sana dia rasa nak trkncin sangat, tapi dia tak nampak tanda toilet, to ease himself. Dia nampak seorang leleki Arab, dari negeri mana tak tau. Dia cuba tanya, tapi lelaki tu tak faham BI, dan Pak Yop tak tau bahasa Arab. Dia pon pergi hampir dengan lelaki tu,sambil tunjukkan tangannya hampir sangat dengan "birdie" orang tu. Masa yang sama dia kuncupkan lima jari tangan kanannya itu, dan dari arah birdie tu digerakkan jari-jarinya sesolah-olah memancutkan air. Serata merta irang tu faham, dan PakYop pon rasa amat lega!!! Moral of the story? U tell us.....

2.MakYang kurang sihat hari tu, tapi gigih juga nak buat umrah yang terakhirnya sebelum balik. Nani dan Jar sorong dia naik wheelchair. Selesai Umrah tu,dia pon disorong balek oleh anak-anak nya. Tiba di perkarangan Masjidil Haram, dia di tinggalkan sekejap oleh anak-anaknya. Mak Yang ketika itu berpakaian serba putih, dan bercermin mata hitam. Tiba-tiba ada seorang hamba Allah meletakkan SR10.00 di atas ribanya. MakYang suruh Nani belikan aiskrim dari duit itu, tapi Nani tak mau dan guna duitnya sendiri. Moral of the story? U tell us!!!

3. Tokcu sakit dan beberapa hari tak keluar dari bilik. Makanan Wancu dibawakan kebiliknya. Mkco pergi melihat dia. Tiba-tiba dia menjerit kuat, " Apa bau busuk niii... berulang kali. Makco rasa takut dan terus berganjak berdiri dekat pintu biliknya. Pahcu terus mengambil pinggan nasinya dan membuang makanannya ke dalam bakul sampah. Menu hari itu ialah nasi puteh, lauk ayam masak sambal dan salad dengan sambal belacan. Kemudian dia jerit lagi, ' Nak muntah ni,.. nak muntah ni..." Makwe yang baru tiba ke bilik Tokcu terus masuk bilik air dan ambil bakul sampah yang ada makanan makanan yang dia kata busuk tadinya. Bakul sampah tu dah sedia ada lapisan plastik Makwe letakkan dekat dengan hidung dan mulut Tokcu, supaya ia muntah di dalam bakul itu. Makco yang memerhati apa yang terjadi, kek kek kek ketawa. Moral of the story? U tell us!!!

Knock! Knock! Who's there!!

Nur...Who's Nur.. the light of everyone's life.. I'm in again.. Month of March. Can't sleep although no audiconf finally (sigh).. Got to know mak is sick, high fever and experienced short amnesia... I'm worried.. Ya Allah.. I'm not ready for anything bad to happen. I survived for another months in 2009, world economy is not good. Moe news about people being laid-off..Pray to Allah Malaysia is not the selected ones..

Mar 8 - Mala's engagement. I'm happy for the family esp mak and abah pilah.. I know they have been struggling raising the kids and now is the payback time. Our family is growing each month.. D

Mar 16 - Going to umrah..Ya Allah permudahkanlah urusan ini..amin

The beginning 2009

We went to Malacca on 31st Dec, celebratng new year and taking the kids out on a final day of 2008. Sewa apartment belakang Mahkota Parade. Memang harga quite pricey (for me more RM 200 considered dah over the budget). Tapi worthwhile of paying, semua tempat dekat jalan kaki shj. Even we can see Eye of Malaysia from the Apt room. I marked this place as a short, simple place to go for bercuti. Dekat dgn rumah dan berbaloi. Banyak new places since the last time I went. Even there're new foundings. I love history , kat sekolah memang score.
Ok .. New Year 2009. Azam tahun lepas pun tak sure terlaksana ke tak.. pun dah tak ingat apa. So tahun ni, plannya simple jela.

1. Giving more respect to husband... biar dapat cium bau syurga
2. Make sure I don't get pregnant this year

Addicted to Net

Because of FB, every night I'll find a time to get connected. So, basically it triggers the mood to update my blog. In a way, sebagai collection of my life event. Sekelip mata anak membesar depan mata.

This is my FB badge


For this time around, photos entails everything. Here goes

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Year End Update

Well, You can sense how busy I am this year. This is my 3rd post for this year. And I guess would be the wrap up post. Summarize key things happening to me

May
My Birthday. Dah lupa hubby bagi apa. As usual, kena mintak baru dapat. Ooo I get a new purse; Bonia. Went around tak jumpa yang berkenan. I need a perfect one because I know I'll be using it till 4-5 yrs down the road. Mesti boleh simpan buku bank, USD yg lebor, and a place for picture.. Hmm. Kali ni siap ada sling, kalau nak keluar lunch tak payak bawak handbag. Pandai tak salesgirl tu bodek. I had to attend many wedding receptions, so decided for family vacation to Kuala Terengganu alang2 pegi kenduri kahwin. The girl tu pun dah pregnant.

June
Went to US for a week, visit Kak Na in SF. So I did my raya shopping there. All for my sons, and my bathware. Satu beg barang Victoria Secret and Bodyworks.

July - Same old thing...work ..work..work. We bought a second car..MPV.. Kononnya the family is already big..Duhh...baru anak dua. Think about safety, I need have a bigger car. I don't want to risk the kids by putting them on the lap. So the best way is to buy a bigger car.. Just because our nafsu is considerably big too.. We got an Estima. Can you imagine that.. Anak dua jer.. Power door punya pasal..Selepas itu, hidup kami pun sengkek. I tell you I have to catu my lunch pocket money, monthly expense..even my kids stuff being downgraded..at one point I bought "pampers" not drypers..and it's sucks.. Nawfal siap boleh koyak dgn tangan..

August
Yang best cuti Merdeka kot.. Hish tak taula...Time flies.

Sept
Posa.. Hubby takde for the past two weeks of ramadhan. He had to go to offfshore.. Me myself making sure that I'll not miss the terawih, surau hujung jalan je.. Takkan tak pegi kot.. Bukak Posa pun ala kadar.. so guesss what I managed to gain my pre-baby weight..

Oct
Rayala... The first Raya was at my in-law's.. 5 days without a maid.. I managed to take care my both babies..Tu agaknya turun berat badan tu kot..Berkat solat dhuha, company announced 8% increment to the employees. So, we basically gotten 16% percent (Me n Hubby). My employment anniversary.. so alhamdulillah naik increment..tak banyak tapi boleh la tolong kurang beban bayar estima. OO lagi satu my kids went to daycare because maid balik holiday for a month. Mencekik daghah punya day care. Nafiz pegi 2 minggu je.. off cuti raya, pastu mak dtg rumah dia nak tinggal dgn opah..Tapi I had tu pay them 1K plus.. Overtime sampai RM90, pastu bagi alasan buku tak bawak..Kalau betulla menipu.. tak berkat business diorang

Nov
Lega sikit..Pastu cari strategy untuk barang dapur.. Selama ni beli kat Rufaqa or know as Ikhwan Global..Mak aii..mahal..Lepas tu selalu buat transaction mistake.. Last week , I persuaded my husband to go pasar besar Seremban.. Save money and many things to buy with cheaper price.

April Post

Have moved to 2Q, but still wondering what were my accomplishments this year..

Family

1. Nawfal dah boleh jalan on his 10-mth birthday
2. Nafiz is picking up new phrases. Sebab selalu sangat tengok TV bahasa percakapan dia dah jadi formal "Wow hebatnya..berjaya"
3. Abey dah banyak rambut gugur.. katanya sebab teman selalu sangat nagging sampai botak kepala dia.. hmmm
4. Me... I still hasn't gotten my original weight after the 2nd pregnancy... dieting pun kekadang bila rasa bersalah.. but now i make a point to go for senam robik every Sunday at the park.
5. We found new hobby ... me and my husband..baking.. kitorang dah buat quiche.. tak sangka my husband ada bakat terpendam buat pastry.. muhahaha

Work

1. Dalam benci kerja mesti nak cerita pasal kerja.. ntah le.. i'm too into it
2. Oklaaa... My principle is to give my fullest effort to make this successful..My fullest effort may not be something that memang bagus... see the leg le.. Teman ni orang kampung..Takat standard temiang ler teman bagi..Nak gempak sgt idok le. Ater sapa suruh nominate teman.. Teman tak sior nak pegang supervisor2 ni. Well amanah is amanah... i don't give a damn about the title..but i'll give my very best to the tasks

Maid

1. Bibik teman ada masalah keluarga. Ater kalau ada sedara dtg, balik kampung..mengadu ajala dia. Takde pulak nak ngadu kat majikan dia.
   
2. I want her to continue working with me.. but me tahu jelah.. berat mulut. I have not had a serious discussion with her.. to continue or not to continue... kang nak balik cuti hujung tahun kena plan my leave

Extended Family

1. My father in law has retired at the aged of 56 on Apr 17
2. So they have moved back to Pilah
3. I started to share my hobby with my mother in law - jaga orkid
   
4. Abg Am moved to Seremban 2. Tambah lagi member kat Negeri Sembilan. Ada la geng rumah mak nak berkunjung kat sini nanti

Photos
Cutest photo of Nawfal

New Hobby

2008 ELECTION

I'm alone with my kids and maid. Baba went back home for voting. Me being the "don't care citizen" stayed at home look after my kids or they look after me. My eldest is busy doing his favorite hobby mess-up place, kali ni bilik computer abah dia. Tengah prepare lampu kononnya rosak.. Well.. tengah boring boring ni rasa nak mencoret. Don't ask about work ... it's never ending.. no more satisfaction.. I feel dumb but pretend to be smart. I need to be strong...
My hubby is no more getting the ultimate happiness from me.. Ada je benda dia sakit hati kat binik dia ni. Sometimes I feel we better off work in different places. I just can't be the 8-5 working hours. He keeps on telling me in a day we need to go home early.. nevertheless my work does not permit me to do that.. pls understand.
Anak anak... fully dependant kat bibik. Kalau dia takde memang le tertekan rasanya..Hal kerja lagi dgn hal rumah... urgh Let's not talk about more..Sebenarnya nak letak gambar from my new dopod...sign off

Close-out year 2007

Cuti tahunan till year end.

Chronology of Events

June
June 13 - Gave birth to my second son - Muhammad Nawfal Nasrun. Meaning of Nawfal - Generous.

July & Aug
Confinement period. Gain 6 kg after gave birth..urgh
Mid Aug - Return to Office.. Why do I ...

Sept



Sep 1 - Nazrin kahwin
Mid Sept - Went to Singapore and Bangkok. Business Trip. As usual K Oja ikut serta.
Sep 13 - Ahlan Ramadhan

Oct

Oct 4 - Birthday of Nafiz
Oct 13 - Raya.....Happy :)